In the contemporary world, people are enamored with the achievements of successful individuals. Their images often adorn social media profiles, as they are revered in various fields.
Success is not limited to cricket, movies, business or management, or modeling, it is a universal aspiration. However, it is important to remember that behind every success story lies a tale of failures, disappointments, and persistent efforts.
This article is for those young minds who are really on the path of making some great difference to their lives and the dependants.
Here are the ingredients to make a cocktail called 'Successful Life'.
Failures:
Failures are an integral part of the path to success. Without facing challenges, it is unlikely that one will ever progress. The journey towards success only begins when one is confronted with difficult situations. Some people start with success as their goal, but even then, failures are a necessary component of success. So, a person needs to find more enthusiasm with every failure to find success.
No Shortcuts:
Success cannot be attained through shortcuts. It requires hard work and dedication. Even if one thinks they have achieved success through a shortcut, it is likely to be temporary and holds little value.
No Place For The Hazardous Comfort Zone:
Comfort is a dangerous trap that can lead to stagnation. As soon as one becomes content with their current state- be it a reasonable monthly salary or a temporary luck factor, growth comes to a halt. The pursuit of comfort, even at a young age, can prevent one from taking advantage of opportunities for growth. Some people may not even realize they have limited themselves to their comfort zone, but as time passes, they may regret not having taken action. To avoid this pitfall, one should maintain a broad perspective and keep pushing themselves.
Self Discipline:
Many people believe that success requires favorable conditions and the right timing. However, success requires preparation and self-discipline. "If you are disciplined and work hard towards your goals, the right time comes searching". This is the key to success, according to those who have achieved it.
No Self Pity:
Some people have a strong work ethic and aspirations but may face challenges, such as having to support their family after completing their education. Many stop pursuing higher studies or taking up bigger challenges citing the reasons of responsibility with a tinge of self pity. In such situations, instead of feeling sorry for oneself, one should strive to overcome these obstacles with determination. Self pity is like a pinch of salt in the sweet dish called 'success'. It never mixes well!
Decision Making:
Difficult decisions can be challenging, but they play a crucial role in determining one's progress towards success. It is essential to be mindful of the long-term benefits of any action taken. For example, if one is working and studying at the same time, it is important to ensure that their course of study is practical and beneficial. Careful consideration is necessary when making these kinds of decisions.
